This picture of Asher, my birthday boy, in a blur is pretty much how his 8 years have been. It’s also a pretty accurate picture of how he usually is… busy! Unless he’s playing video games that is. My wonderful, lovable, smart, funny, crazy kid turned 8 years old this past Wednesday, March 12th.
I look at him now (misty-eyed), especially in these pictures and see he is changing yet again. He is losing that young round cheek child-like appearance and looking more boyish. But he is still snuggly and showing me affection, so I’ll take it. He’s not yet too embarrassed when I grab him up and squeeze him tight and smother him with kisses, although I know it’s probably coming. For right now, he’s my boy… still needing comfort from his mother when he’s sad or sick which unfortunately he was this week.
Another ear infection and a call from school the day before his birthday. Along with a wonderful new nasty little bacterial germ… Impetigo. Oh yay. What are those kids doing in school? I’m convinced they just try to share every little germ they’ve got with one another. Did I mention I’ve got Strep Throat? Thanks to my little carrier, I’m sure. He on the other hand didn’t have it. The doctor told me it’s not uncommon for it to not attack someone without their tonsils and I still have mine.
Can I just say O.M.G. I’ve never had Strep before and never want it again. It feels like you’ve chewed up glass then swallowed it and then for good measure… here, why don’t you swallow this molten lava with your food. I mean to tell you I have had some bad sore throats but none like this. My throat swelled up and that thing that hangs down in the back of your throat did too so that I felt like I had a big wad of chewed up food stuck back there. It was so badly swollen that if I leaned forward or yawned or opened my mouth to look at the horror that was happening, cue the gag reflex!
I went to the Convenient Care because of course it is worse on a Sunday to yep find out I was Strep positive. I started antibiotics at once and I still have pain today (Friday!). So I called the doctors office on Wednesday and explained what had happened and that I wasn’t better yet and they told me to come in. My doctor said I no longer have Strep (he tested for it) but I must’ve gotten some other virus along with it and it decided my throat was fair game. So I’m just continuing my meds and slowly recovering. I swear this has been the longest winter and the worse one for us in a long time for being sick.
Back to happier things… I picked up Asher a Battleship game, remember those? I put up the extra cash for the electronic one because I knew he would love the sounds and lights. Man I tell you I scored on this gift. He loves it. I actually like to play it with him as well. I don’t think I had one as a kid. It never looked interesting to me, but I do enjoy playing it with Asher and for now, he is excited about something other than a video game!
Here he is so serious about putting the pegs in…
My opponent! He insists on sitting on the table.
He asked for chocolate cake and picked it out when we went shopping after his doctor’s appointment. Hot Fudge Cake.
Asher approves!
Yes, it tastes as wonderful as it looks!
So my little Birthday Boy got to stay home from school on his 8th birthday, probably the best present in his mind… haha. We played Battleship and watched the big chunks of snow fall. It was a great day.
Boooooo! For being sick. That sounds awful. Thank heavens I’ve never had that.
Happy birthday to Asher! The years really do go by so fast. A friend just sent me pictures of our kids from a few summers at and I couldn’t believe the difference. My Trey isn’t a baby anymore. 🙁 too bad we didn’t live closer, I bet Trey and Asher would be fast friends! Trey loves battleship too and has been trying to convince me to buy the electronic version for some time now. I never liked the game as a kid but I kind of enjoy it now.
Glad you guys had some good quality time together. I’m sure missing my little man (and my big man!) Trey has been with his father all week in PEI. I’ll be so happy to see him tomorrow.
Hope you feel better soon, spring is just around the corner!
I know you are missing your little guy (and big one, wink wink, nudge nudge! Hahhaha) We are feeling better here just in time for a big birthday bash tomorrow. If anyone around you has Strep… RUN!
Hi Jaime!
Happy birthday to the big boy!
I am sorry to hear you were sick…it’s easier being sick
when you are a kid…being a sick mom is the worst!
I loved playing games with my kids,
luckily for me
there they hadn’t invented video games until they were older
{do you believe neither of my kids play any?}
You are such a trooper and an good Mama…
these are the things he will remember…
Yay for you Jamie!
And you will have plenty of time for art when he is older.
But it looks like you are light-years ahead of me there,lol.
♥ ♥ ♥
I wish he didn’t love the video games so much, but I guess it is part of growing up in today’s world. Luckily, he gets tired of them and jumps up to start playing other things. He is very imaginative and does a lot of pretend play, which I love to see. You are so right, being sick is much harder when you’re a mom – nobody takes care of us! I get art time when he is at school and for now, that is just fine. Thank you for being such a good friend 🙂